A man who loves himself is able to give of himself to a woman no matter how broken she may be because he understands that he too has been broken but has learned the artistry of unconditional love.
A wise woman only wants one thing from her man and that is for him to love her with all his might, mind and soul. This brews from the understanding that if he loves her with all his might, everthing he does will be in her honour, in her defence and and to build her up; if he loves her with all his mind then in everything he does he is mindful of her, she becomes his queen of hearts, she governs his thoughts meaning his love for her governs his actions and in tern governs who he becomes. And lastly, to love with all your soul is him placing her at the center of his wellbeing, his peace, his joy, she becomes his reasoning voice, his love for her governs every unspoken emotion, every desire and all his passion.
She has to be strong enough to know that love isn’t just the emotion she feels and the butterflies she feels in her belly but in loving him she becomes his armour bearer, his shield that weather’s all storms and, most importantly, his reason for breathing, literally.
Men you cheap not only reflect self disrespect, self hate and a lack of self discipline but also neglect a woman vulnerable to the rest of the world. He robs her of an opportunity to co create, co compose and co perform in life’s melodies and harmonies of love. He defiles her, belittle the value of her love by inferiorating her. Her insecurities continuously rise and before he knows it she has built her walls so high that only the strength of a pure love will be able to break her walls down. She hides behind make up, sex, attention and facades of being happy that she begins to take solace in the fact that she can’t love but it can be replaced by more instant ‘quick fixes’.
They say “all men cheat and it has nothing to do with his partner” uhm, WRONG! Why except a woman to accept a standard set by men who believe in lust at fisrt fix? A woman’s love is worth more than any “quick fix” and any “I’m sorry, it was a mistake”, any “she forced herself on me” and any… “I was lonely”…